Ur Gay Now

LGBTQ+ friendly community

Welcome to Ur Gay Now

The official community hub for Ur Gay Now.

Gayest Person of the Month

A monthly community award celebrating our most vibrant members. Nominations and voting take place in the UGN Discord server.

What we offer

Multiple ways to hang out, connect, and celebrate together.

VRChat

Hang out in VRChat worlds and events — full-body fun, games, and good vibes only.

Discord

Chat, share, and stay connected with 200+ community members on our Discord server.

Events

Daily game nights, world parties, and special celebrations you won't want to miss.

Community

Safe, inclusive spaces where you can be authentically you and find your people.

Friends

Build lasting friendships with people who share your interests and energy.

What’s Happening

Live events, upcoming plans, the latest news, and active polls — everything you need to jump in.

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Nothing on the horizon

No upcoming events scheduled right now. Follow us on socials for announcements!

Latest announcements

Stay up to date with what's happening in the community.

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Hey @⋆⁺₊✧ Fluffballs ✩₊˚.⋆ !! A website update is coming... Winter is coming!! ~ We're also planning to add a Staff Memorial Page to honour and remember some of

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Community highlights

A snapshot of what we've built together.

👥24Staff & volunteers
🎉1Events hosted
📸0Community photos

Meet the team

The lovely humans who keep things running.

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Bluey Barks

@Bluey Bark

Founder

Love is confusing. It's unknown. It's a battle where no one truly knows who will win or who will lose. Don't rush it. Be patient. Listen to what your heart, mind, and body are telling you—they often know what you need long before you do. Trust the journey, and let love unfold in its own time.

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Melon

@-༒Melon༒-

Moderator

Hi, im melon. I speak 3 languages gaeilge english and japanese, my favourite animals are foxes and im a cute puppy boy!

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Pups Barks

@Pups Barks

Co-Founder

Just a chill person to talk to who you can ask anything, and I have the best boy in the world<3

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RyoFrost

@RyoFrost

Moderator

Hi, im Ryo, I'm here to help if i am able, but unless you try to talk to me first I probably will stay silent endless I'm clocked in

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༒Sunny_shrew༒

@༒Sunny_shrew༒

Co-Owner

just call me sunny and feel free to ask me anything except the 9th of aprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilaprilapril-

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Cat 6241

@Cat 6241

Safeguarding

Friendly,Quiet,Mysterious, Feel Free To Ask Questions (Always Happy To Help Even If Quiet :3)